Good Habits Create Great Marriages
Many couples think that the answers to a great marriage are by attending workshops or getting advice from others.
Both of these actions are a start but unless you change the way you habitually think about your partner nothing will change.
I struggled with this issue for many years until I learned a simple truth.
1. Thoughts lead to feelings.
2. Feelings lead to actions.
3. Actions lead to results good or bad.
I attended a course called the Master Key Experience in 2015 where I learned how to create the habit of shifting my negative thoughts from to positive thoughts which lead to positive feelings and empowered me to actions that restored my relationship with my wife Valerie.
The results did not happen overnight but practicing the habit everyday is what created the result I wanted.
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The Power of Habit Formation
Replacing negative patterns with positive ones is crucial for marital harmony. As you’ve discovered, this process requires discipline and consistency[1]. By committing to the MKE exercises and readings, you’re laying the foundation for lasting change.
Tapping into Universal Resources
The MKE course’s emphasis on connecting with the Universal mind or God who resonates deeply with you. This approach offers a unique perspective compared to quick-fix workshops, providing tools to access infinite resources for personal growth[2].
Practical Steps for Marriage Improvement
To build a stronger connection with your wife, consider implementing these habits:
1. Daily Acts of Kindness: Perform small, thoughtful gestures each day to show your love and appreciation.
2. Undivided Attention: Dedicate at least 15 hours a week to quality time together, focusing on meeting each other’s emotional needs.
3. Open Communication: Practice clear, kind communication instead of hinting or complaining.
4. Celebrate Together: Make time for fun and celebration in your relationship to nurture happiness.
5. Express Gratitude: Regularly thank your spouse for their efforts and contributions.
6. **Create Shared Rituals**: Establish couple-specific traditions to strengthen your bond.
Overcoming Challenges
The journey of habit formation can feel overwhelming at times. Remember that persistence is key. Trust in the process and continue with your daily exercises, even when progress seems slow.
You don’t have to do this on your own, I am here to support you on your journey. Schedule your FREE 30-minute Elephant in The Room Call NOW! https://calendly.com/mikestewartcoaching/elephant-in-the-room-breakthrough-session
Spiritual Connection
Your faith plays a significant role in your growth journey.
Jeremiah 11-12
11. For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.
The biblical verse mentioned (Jeremiah 29:11-12) serves as a powerful reminder of hope and divine guidance in your path to a fulfilling marriage and life purpose.
By consistently applying these principles and maintaining your commitment to personal development, you’re paving the way for the harmonious, loving marriage you’ve always desired. Stay focused on your Definite Major Purpose (DMP) and continue to tap into the infinite resources available to you through your spiritual connection and the MKE teachings.
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